I decided to switch my Taboo Thursdays to Tuesdays (they’re both T’s right!?) Breaks up the week a little bit too.
Today’s Taboo Topic (my goodness so many T’s!!!) is something that is glorified by pornography and a question I get asked about frequently at my parties.
Female Ejaculation or commonly known as Squirting.
The most common question I get asked in regards to female ejaculation is how can I do it?
I unfortunately am the bearer of bad news. Not everyone can. Its either you do it or you don’t. You can’t make it happen.
Here are some quick facts:
- Female ejaculate is not urine.
- Doctors and researchers are still unsure where exactly it comes from.
- Very few studies have been done on this topic over the last 30 years.
- Its not abnormal if you can do it, but its not abnormal if you can’t.
Unfortunately Porn has glorified it and created the idea that its something you can achieve if you work at it! Which causes us to feel insecure or lack confidence if we can’t do it.
You should never feel that way! Especially about anything related to sex. Hell, I can’t put my feet behind my head but that doesn’t make me any less capable of having great sex!
If you aren’t able to ejaculate, find something else that you KNOW you can do! And kick ass doing it!
If you are able to, more power to you! Just remember not to focus on making it happen, because when you’re focusing on a singular goal your not focusing on your own pleasure! And pleasure is one of the many reasons we have sex…and you should be enjoying that aspect of it!
Don’t get caught up in the hype created by the porn industry! And let yourself enjoy all those orgasms you’re going to be having!
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