Foreplay Fridays (Long Distance Style!)

I have been in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) for almost a year. Come January it will be a year. And I can tell you it is not easy. In fact its probably one of the hardest things to experience, but in the end its worth it. Communication is challenging when you’re in different time zones, on different schedules and ultimately trying to live your lives separately while still staying apart. And there are tips galore out there on how to keep things alive in a LDR. Even I give you my own Tips to surviving a LDR. But how can you keep the romance (and your sex life) alive from hundreds or even thousands of miles away!? If anyone tells you its easy…they’re lying.

If you take one thing away from this post, take this:

No couple is the same. What works for others might not work for you. 

Coming off that…there is no right or wrong way to have a relationship long distance. There’s things that are important for maintaining a good healthy relationship (like communication and visits when you can) But as far as a sexual relationship thats really up to you and your partner.

I personally am at odds with Skype sex and phone sex. I feel silly and funny doing it, not sexy and arousing at all. But others think its great and have a blast doing it. You have to talk to your partner to decide what works best for you. Maybe its the anticipation of seeing each other (even if it means its months apart) or maybe its taking care of business alone until you can be together again.

Here’s some things to try:

• Phone sex!
• Skype Sex!
• Send private videos and photos (try Snapchat if you don’t want them stored on your phone)
• Send sexy text messages
• Take care of business on your own!
• Try to schedule a rendevous with your partner as often as you can! (meet in the middle if its easier!)

The only real advice I can give is to try a few different things out, talk about it with your partner and see what works best for you. Because what works for you might not work for someone else!

What tips do you have for keeping your sex life healthy when you’re in a long distance relationship?

September Spicy Subscription Box Review

It took me awhile to get to photographing my Spicy Subscription box this month, it actually took its sweet time getting to me this time around and then I was even slower to get to it. I was busy cooking up a storm last weekend!!  But now that I took some jazzy pics (I’m still working on my skillllzzzz) I’ll share with you what I received! And perhaps a Giveaway???? Whatcha think???

This month’s box was not nearly as HUGE as Last Month’s but none the less I was impressed with the full size products I received.

Foreplay Fridays: August Subscription Box Review

Well I’m doing a combo Foreplay Friday post! (didn’t think I forgot about that Spicy Subscription box did you!?) Reason why I’ll be combining today and doing my FF post as a subscription box review is because one of the items I got in my box is totally a perfect FF item!

I opted for the Deluxe Spicy Subscription box because for only a few additional dollars you get a few more big items! Total score!

When I got home and saw my package I couldn’t believe it! Talk about a HUGE subscription box! I was suprised and couldn’t wait to see what was in such a large package!

Not only did I get a nice sized toy, I also received a romantic Scavanger Hunt, some samples of Lube and an flavored oral gel!

Pink and Gun Oil are really popular lubricants. I personally haven’t tried them out, but I’m eager to test them out!

Passion Fruit! And specifically designed for the boys.

Retailed at 24.99 and is a pretty good size. Not too big, not too small!

So The Pleasure Hunt was what made my package so big! Filled with those little balls you get from Gumball machines each ball contains a few different instructions on the little slips. Hide them around your bedroom or your house and when you’re partner finds them you can perform the acts in the ball! Super cute idea! And makes for a fun evening or a lazy Sunday!